Book Review: It Sucked and Then I Cried

Book Review: It Sucked and Then I Cried

It Sucked and Then I Cried: How I Had a Baby, a Breakdown, and a Much Needed Margarita by Heather Armstrong

(I can’t get the picture link to work so you can see the cover of this book, but oh well!)

Okay, this book is hilarious! There were many times in reading it that I laughed out loud and my husband asked me what was so funny. And then I told him and he laughed. What is so great is how she writes about having a newborn, because she says things that are so true in a really funny way. Now, I must warn you, GRAPHIC LANGUAGE! So if you can’t skim words that might bother you, then maybe you shouldn’t read it. But it was so funny, I just had to keep going.

Heather Armstrong is a popular blogger, although I don’t follow her blog. She writes about the time before and after the birth of her first child. Here is an exerpt from Amazon’s description:

Heather Armstrong gave up a lot of things when she and her husband, Jon, decided to have a baby: beer, small boobs, free time — and antidepressants. The eighteen months that followed were filled with anxiety, constipation, nacho cheese Doritos, and an unconditional love that threatened to make her heart explode. Still, as baby Leta grew and her husband, Jon, returned to work, Heather faced lonely days, sleepless nights, and endless screaming that sometimes made her wish she’d never become a mother. Just as she was poised to throw another gallon of milk at her husband’s head, she committed herself for a short stay in a mental hospital — the best decision she ever made for her family.

 

My rating: four stars (would be five except for language) out of five

Birthday celebrations

Birthday celebrations

Man, what a birthday! I had a birthday on Friday, and I feel like I was so blessed to get to celebrate for several days!

Thanks to everyone who made it a fun birthday, including all the wishes by facebook or email.

I’ll blame the blogging break on all the birthday festivities. I had planned out lots of blog topics on my google calendar, but I haven’t actually been good about writing them yet! Oh well!

I haven’t put any pictures on my computer yet, so here is one from my phone.

Bday

What is your favorite thing to do on a birthday?

Product Review: Swaddleme Infant Swaddle Blanket by Summer

Product Review: Swaddleme Infant Swaddle Blanket by Summer

Summer Infant Swaddleme Cotton Knit, Pink, Large

One thing that we used most with our baby E was her swaddlers. Pretty much as soon as we brought E home from the hospital we started swaddling her to sleep at naps and night. We had two of these to start with, but maybe could have even used more with a newborn because I feel like there were lots that got messed up with blowouts and we didn’t do laundry that quickly. We used these because we had heard that babies like to be swaddled because it reminds them of being in the womb. Whatever it is, I don’t know, but E liked it! And she was a good sleeper! Aside from the various points where it has been hard to get her to nap or to stay asleep or whatever, she has overall been a good sleeper and we have always used swaddles.

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(two weeks old)

Basically you tuck the feet in and then wrap it around her arms. It is possible to swaddle with a regular blanket but I was never very good at that and she always came out really quickly. It would help her arms not flail around and wake herself up when she was little. When she got bigger, we would put an arm out so she could retrieve and reinsert her paci. Some of them even have a slot in the bottom so that you can put them in the car seat swaddled and the car seat buckle can poke through to be fastened. There have definitely been times when she could wriggle out of it, but often it would keep her somewhat still long enough to fall asleep so it was fine if she got out by morning. It is also added warmth, a blanket that is safe to use when they are little and when “they” say not to put blankets in the crib with your baby.

We have just kept buying the next size right up until…well….still using one! Yes we still swaddle our big girl, but really it is more just a blanket that stays on. It is not tight and we leave an arm out and she usually gets the other one out pretty fast. In my opinion, this helps buy time before she stands up in the crib, meaning she lays down longer, thereby falling asleep faster. It is also a blanket she can’t kick off. She has always been petite so we use the large size and I guess before too long she will outgrow it or we will just transition to a blanket, but right now it works! Other than the past week or so, she was napping twice a day and sleeping 12+ hours at night without waking up. If it ain’t broke, don’t fix it!

Look how happy she is to be swaddled?
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First birthday, partially escaped, but still cozy and warm!
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My rating: five out of five stars! (Can I give it six?)